How to kiss?

The First Kiss

Aryan, a software engineer in Tampa, Fla., vividly recalls his first kiss with his wife a decade ago. They were sitting on the couch in her dad's living room and as he leaned over to kiss her, he lost his balance and fell off the couch, pulling her down with him.

"I was so nervous because she was completely out of my league," he says. "So our first kiss happened while we were laughing and 10 years and three beautiful children later, we're still laughing and kissing every chance we get." 

If your first kiss -- or any of the many that follow -- isn't what you're hoping for, talk about it. Many couples hesitate to talk about kissing out of embarrassment, Christian says.

Don't be shy about telling your partner what you like or asking what your partner prefers, he says. Just don't do it while you're kissing, so your partner doesn't take it as a rebuke.
Men's and Women's Kissing Mistakes

Most of us have clear preferences -- turn-ons and pet peeves -- when it comes to kissing styles.

Christian says men's biggest mistake is that they're too aggressive with their tongues. And men claim that women don't open their mouths wide enough.

For both sexes, the No. 1 kissing complaint is lack of variety, Christian says. He recommends kissing the different parts of your partner's face and paying special attention to the ears and neck. He suggests biting softly on the lower lip and nibbling gently on the earlobe....

Woo.... will you try it out ? :)

Mind blown ...

Imagine what the world would look like if we allowed (even encouraged?) our children to continue thinking intuitively – the way nature has gifted all of us. Even illiterates would work out new solutions to complex problems.

But, instead, we indoctrinate babies with (a) religion and (b) social mores (e.g. their "status" in life). We literally FRIGHTEN the wits out of them.

That's the "great" contribution of religion and social mores: to destroy our children's brain.

Look at the mess religions have made. Every second day some crazy guy gets up and starts killing someone else because he doesn't see the world AS IT IS, but as someone else tells him to think of it. Some fool said something thousands of years ago. We don't even have ANY evidence about these ancient statements, but we "believe" in them. We are made to believe in them, on pain of excommunication, social ostracism.

Maybe, before we talk about liberating mankind, we need to liberate our babies from the chains of MAN MADE ghosts, fairies, Santas, saints, and gods.

Let's NEVER teach any child such nonsense.

Let's not set up hierarchies and "social" mores in the minds of our children.

Let children explore. Let them learn.

They will emerge as wonderful adults – if only they are spared religion and social "mores" and hierarchies.

Small business ideas...

For most potential entrepreneurs, the hardest part in deciding to start a business is simply coming up with small business ideas.

Maybe a friend has succeeded in her own business. Perhaps small business ownership runs in your family. Or is it the fact that you’re just bored with the daily grind?

Why haven’t you pulled the trigger? What’s holding you back?

Based on our research, the three primary reasons that people who want to start a business but haven’t are:

Fear of Failure – The fear of not succeeding simply paralyzes the potential entrepreneur. A lack of confidence “freezes” any chance of getting started.

Lack of Capital – Not having enough money to fund a startup or sustain one’s family during the beginning phases of the business are concerns that keep many of us locked behind our desk in a nine-to-five grind.

Limited Ideas – Believe it or not, many potential business owners never get started because they have trouble coming up with small business ideas. They lack that special creative spark that ignites the business flame.

While all three of the above startup concerns are valid (and need to all be addressed), the purpose of this website is to help you with the last point – coming up with profitable small business ideas.

You see, once you find the right business idea, the rest of your fears – the obstacles standing in your way – become much easier to conquer.